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Thought for the day.

Polyamory is not about having multiple partners so that every aspect of a relationship can be satisfied by different people. If something is lacking in one relationship, finding that thing in another person will not be lasting or fulfilling.

But I think that’s how it’s been going for me lately. Things are lacking that are being picked up by others, and while it’s nice to have everything I need satisfied, two half relationships don’t make a whole one. Two whole relationships is what I signed up for, and what I expect out of polyamory (as everyone should), and I just don’t know if that’s where it’s at right now.

Don’t get me wrong, I am really happy in my relationships, but they aren’t everything that I need a relationship to be.

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    I love this post so much… It’s not about having all your ”needs” satisfied, like it’s a checklist, it’s about loving...
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  6. rememberwhaturlookingatisme said: But that is part of how things are, relationships will shift and change. As long as you keep finding what makes you happy.
  7. earthlingonly said: Uh…. But what if you are a poly person who has separate sexual and romantic attraction according to different genders? As I am.
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