This blog is about polyamory, queerness, and sex positivity -- I will chronicle my musings, opinions, advice, adventures, and misadventures in open relationships and exploring my gender and sexuality. Come along for the ride!
I am an early 20's polyamorous queer and genderqueer sometimes-ladyish person looking to create a society of understanding and acceptance of polyamory and sex positivity. Since most people are either unaware, unsupportive, or have misconceptions of polyamory, this blog is critical. And awesome. And will definitely make you smile. That's what really matters in the world, right? Right.
The most important thing about this blog is that it's here not just for me, but for you. With such a small (but growing!) polyamorous community online, it's important that we advocate for each other and speak up. This is my way of doing so. Please feel free to ask me questions or request topics for me to speak on.
[And peruse the links below for a better understanding of what Polycule is all about.]
Polyamory is not about having multiple partners so that every aspect of a relationship can be satisfied by different people. If something is lacking in one relationship, finding that thing in another person will not be lasting or fulfilling.
But I think that’s how it’s been going for me lately. Things are lacking that are being picked up by others, and while it’s nice to have everything I need satisfied, two half relationships don’t make a whole one. Two whole relationships is what I signed up for, and what I expect out of polyamory (as everyone should), and I just don’t know if that’s where it’s at right now.
Don’t get me wrong, I am really happy in my relationships, but they aren’t everything that I need a relationship to be.