This blog is about polyamory, queerness, and sex positivity -- I will chronicle my musings, opinions, advice, adventures, and misadventures in open relationships and exploring my gender and sexuality. Come along for the ride!
I am an early 20's polyamorous queer and genderqueer sometimes-ladyish person looking to create a society of understanding and acceptance of polyamory and sex positivity. Since most people are either unaware, unsupportive, or have misconceptions of polyamory, this blog is critical. And awesome. And will definitely make you smile. That's what really matters in the world, right? Right.
The most important thing about this blog is that it's here not just for me, but for you. With such a small (but growing!) polyamorous community online, it's important that we advocate for each other and speak up. This is my way of doing so. Please feel free to ask me questions or request topics for me to speak on.
[And peruse the links below for a better understanding of what Polycule is all about.]
You know how NSFW blogs periodically post the “please unfollow me if you’re under 18” business? Here is mine:
I know it’s illegal for you to follow me if you’re under 18.
I know that young people are following this blog and seeing blatantly sexual images, references to kink and fetish, and me talk freely about sex.
I don’t care.
I know, even if I tell you to unfollow me, you either a) won’t, or b) will. If B, you won’t stop looking at porn or finding sex-driven data on the internet. So asking you to unfollow me is not accomplishing anything.
I want you here. You need this. You need to see a woman with a healthy sexuality, a woman who freely expresses it and will tell you that it’s okay. A woman who was in your shoes not too long ago. A woman that will tell you that it’s okay to love sex, even if the law says you couldn’t possibly be old enough to understand or be ready (what the fuck is up with that anyway? Nevermind. Anarchist tangent). As long as you’re educated and you’re practicing it in a safe way that is not damaging to anyone (most importantly yourself!) in a physical or emotional way, you’re doing it right. You’re doing it more right than many adults I know that are twice your age.
I want everyone to realize how important a healthy and personal sexuality is. What do I mean by “personal sexuality?” I mean that I want you to take ownership of your sexuality. It’s yours and it’s not going away. Embrace it. Feed it. Take good care of it. Love it as part of yourself. If following this blog is going to aid in that, keep on keepin on.
Just don’t let your parents see.
Because they’re following me too.