Polycule

You know how NSFW blogs periodically post the “please unfollow me if you’re under 18” business? Here is mine:

I know it’s illegal for you to follow me if you’re under 18.

I know that young people are following this blog and seeing blatantly sexual images, references to kink and fetish, and me talk freely about sex.

I don’t care.

I know, even if I tell you to unfollow me, you either a) won’t, or b) will. If B, you won’t stop looking at porn or finding sex-driven data on the internet. So asking you to unfollow me is not accomplishing anything.

I want you here. You need this. You need to see a woman with a healthy sexuality, a woman who freely expresses it and will tell you that it’s okay. A woman who was in your shoes not too long ago. A woman that will tell you that it’s okay to love sex, even if the law says you couldn’t possibly be old enough to understand or be ready (what the fuck is up with that anyway? Nevermind. Anarchist tangent). As long as you’re educated and you’re practicing it in a safe way that is not damaging to anyone (most importantly yourself!) in a physical or emotional way, you’re doing it right. You’re doing it more right than many adults I know that are twice your age.

I want everyone to realize how important a healthy and personal sexuality is. What do I mean by “personal sexuality?” I mean that I want you to take ownership of your sexuality. It’s yours and it’s not going away. Embrace it. Feed it. Take good care of it. Love it as part of yourself. If following this blog is going to aid in that, keep on keepin on.

Just don’t let your parents see.

Because they’re following me too.