This blog is about polyamory, queerness, and sex positivity -- I will chronicle my musings, opinions, advice, adventures, and misadventures in open relationships and exploring my gender and sexuality. Come along for the ride!
I am an early 20's polyamorous queer and genderqueer sometimes-ladyish person looking to create a society of understanding and acceptance of polyamory and sex positivity. Since most people are either unaware, unsupportive, or have misconceptions of polyamory, this blog is critical. And awesome. And will definitely make you smile. That's what really matters in the world, right? Right.
The most important thing about this blog is that it's here not just for me, but for you. With such a small (but growing!) polyamorous community online, it's important that we advocate for each other and speak up. This is my way of doing so. Please feel free to ask me questions or request topics for me to speak on.
[And peruse the links below for a better understanding of what Polycule is all about.]
i literally hate all men. actually. there’s some cismen i love dearly and who treat me like a human and who do their best not to live up to their cismen legacies, but that doesn’t change the fact that i. literally. hate. all. men.
cry fucking misandry all you want but the world we live in requires me not to give men the benefit of the doubt until they’ve proven that i can trust them to be in my life.
my fear is my right
my fear is my survival
and if u get offended by my fear of u then that just proves that i am 100% correct in fearing u
dudes who are like WOW YOU WONT EVEN TALK TO ME BC YOU THINK ILL RAPE YOU WHAT A FUCKING CUNT like a) yes that’s correct and b) thank you for proving my fear so i won’t have to waste any more time discerning if you in fact are 9000% a creep and c) im gay and yes you should take that personally
Thank you! I’ve noticed this as well, but I also have to say I’m really grateful for every poly voice, some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten has come from people twice my age because they’ve been doing this for 20 years. There is a lot of comfort too though in having a community of people going through it sort of at the same pace as you. I’m glad you like my blog but I would encourage you to be open to all voices! (My personal favorite “veteran” poly mama is polyamorousmisanthrope.tumblr.com. she means business. She’s mastered this tough love bit and it’s incredible.)
how about for day of silence straight people have to be quiet and listen to queer people all day
yes. that is unfair. why is he allowed to be in love with two people but you aren’t even allowed to explore the chance at that? it’s also real shady of him to want a triad when you only have platonic feelings for this other person. it sounds like you need to have a talk with him about why he is comfortable having certain freedoms and restricting them for you. and maybe ask him why he thinks his desire to be in a triad trumps your feelings about not wanting a relationship with this other girl he loves.
yo is it just me or are men who think they understand poly just the fucking pits???
wait this is the nicest thing that’s ever happened on tumblr please keep this up wow thank you 😍
YES ABSOLUTELY. come in close friends i have an announcement. anytime your partner does something you both agreed wasn’t cool (or never discussed and therefore you have no way of knowing if it is cool), you have violated an agreement and you’re wrong. you took advantage of the poly umbrella and that’s fucked up. you are allowed to be upset and it seems like the best course of action is to have a conversation about specific boundaries and things you’re comfortable with so that in the future everyone is clear on what is and is not cool. be cool everyone, you’re a dickhole otherwise.
no but i still side-eye the shit out of anyone who limits their partner’s freedoms but not their own, even if said partner(s) say it’s cool
that’s something we in the biz like to call “unfair”
Yes, as long as you don’t expect me to be an expert! If you have questions to be answered by a professional I am not your guy.
pretty sure it’s because white feminists don’t actually know anything about her
Frida Kahlo was so aggressively negative towards white people in all the right ways (and for all the right reasons.) But somehow managed to acquire the biggest gringa feminist fan base since Sylvia Plath. I just don’t get it.